Posts Tagged ‘people’

It can’t be that bad!

Saturday, November 21st, 2009

Something that I have noticed time and time again, is that people associate initial injury with outcome and prognosis. Of course this is completely normal and usually makes sense. It’s often that a minor injury will have a short healing time and won’t cause lasting problems and a severe injury would have a longer healing time and is more likely to cause longer lasting problems. I think that’s where a major issue lies with people understanding how RSD affects those who suffer. It defies logic that a minor injury or sometimes no injury at all, could cause something so horrific – and it is often a minor injury that causes RSD/CRPS.

People are often astounded that I’m disabled from a minor fall. It’s so much easier to anticipate a big accident, involving paramedics, a hospital stay and months upon months of rehabilitation would be the cause of me now being disabled. It’s often been said to me by even medical professionals “pain is subjective, directly to the injury, therefore since it started with a minor injury, it can’t be that bad!”

RSD/CRPS doesn’t play by the normal rules, like other medical conditions. The pain is far from subjective to the original injury. The original injury heals, but the body doesn’t accept this, the nerves misfire and stop working. It’s no longer the original injury, it’s something so much different and incredibly more complex.

Are we in a no win situation? Many people can’t understand something so minor causing something so traumatic, having such a huge impact on a persons life. It simply goes against logic. The sad thing is, those people can step away, it only affects their lives for a limited time – the time that we’re with them mostly. It doesn’t matter that they don’t understand our pain and that they can’t get their heads around the fact something minor had such a devastating effect, because they can walk away from it. As sufferers of RSD/CRPS, we don’t have the luxury, we have to live with it and somehow accept that for some reason, our bodies malfunctioned and didn’t heal normally, but created other problems instead.

Invisibility, but not like Harry Potter!

Sunday, August 23rd, 2009

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have the power of invisibility? You could go around about your business unnoticed, you could avoid awkward situations where you’re head on with a person and both side-stepping so that you don’t walk into each other and you could sneak backstage to see your favourite band! It could be so cool being like Harry Potter with his invisibility cloak!

I’ve found a much less magical way to become invisible, all you have to do is sit in a wheelchair and instantly people can’t see you! How do I know this? Well, people seem to ignore me and even walk into me when I use my wheelchair.

I may be in a supermarket and people will repeatedly try to walk through me and ignore the fact that I’m there completely. The shop assistant will ask the person that I’m with for payment and even when I give the payment, they’ll hand the change to the person that I’m with.

A change of scenario perhaps? My partner and I took our niece out for the day. Whilst we where out we went to a restaurant, my niece is very obviously a child and could not possibly be mistaken for an adult. As my partner went to the ATM, I went to the restaurant nearby with our niece. “Table for two?” the waitress asks, however the question is not directed to myself, the only adult present, but the child! So although not quite invisible in that scenario, certainly not good enough to talk to!

What is it about a wheelchair that makes you a lower class citizen? In many places you’re either invisible, or just simply not good enough to talk to. Can’t people comprehend that just because limbs don’t work the mind functions quite fine and in some cases superbly? Look no further than Stephen Hawkins, scientific genius but an uncooperative body.

Nattelie from FightingRSD